Denver: thanks for your reply....at least I know im not alone in obsessing over my sitch and im working hard to get my head right at least while im at the office. Its interesting you mention 2stepboogies wife moved pretty quickly toward D cause i've heard rumor thats where mine is headed pretty quickly, but at least til now she's done nothing and mentioned nothing. Im hopeful she doesn't try to surprise me by just dropping papers on me, id rather she talk to me, but either way if she's not angry now she will be if she files cause im guessing she thinks i'll roll over and its not going to happen.
2thepoint: I didnt take it as snarky, and actually didnt know what title to put on my thread and certainly didnt mean that as any disrespect to anyone who's been here longer, I actually had no idea what to use as a title and just threw that up off of the top of my head and honestly worried that some of the veterans might view it as disrespectful, I certainly hope no one takes it that way.
labug: I seriously don't understand some things. I've read part of your sitch and so many others here and if a spouse is incredibly angry I get running on emotion, but mine is almost dead inside I think. She's not mad, not glad and I can understand taking some time to let emotions die down, but at some point we're adults lets sit down and talk about the situation and see if it can be repaired and if it can't well then something else must be done, but doing nothing really seems very immature to me.
