The anniversary card thing is tough, and well, just wierd that we are even asking "What do I write?"...Here is what I wrote in W's card:
Quote:
It takes love to be patient.
It takes love to be willing to give your spouse the
Time they need to grow and to see that time as an
Opportunity for you to grow too.
Thank you for teaching me about love.
Figured not TOO mushy, but said what I wanted (I got that from something I read somewhere with that as the main idea). But I'm a guy, and it is not native to our nature to do the card thing, but I did make it myself...but was still "weird" for me. idk
About H getting rid of stuff...MAYBE he just feels the stuff he is not using is weighing him down, but i do reckon it is a sign of some kind of internal attempt to change SOMEthing, or have control of SOMEthing, since he can't control his job, his thoughts, himself, and so on...kinda like my projects work for me and my sitch. And for a lot of guys, the garage is the sacred space that THEY control, it is like that for me, so when the kids and W dump stuff in it, or mess it up, or whatever, it can feel like I have been invaded (hey, I don't rebuild the lawnmower engine on the dining room table, and I have said nothing about the hot pink sheets on our bed, now have I?... heheh...
As always...WHO KNOWS????? lol...I am so tired of saying that sometimes.
Oh yeah, the memory thing, don't even get me started...just crazy weirdness all around...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
