Oh, Baby! I'm so sorry. I don't have advice. frown

Just didn't want you to think your cries were going into thin air. Sometimes I wonder, does anyone really know what works? Our sitches are all the same yet they are all so different.

My H and I connected powerfully yesterday so I expected not to hear from him today. So it still made me sad, so I'm cleaning the bathroom throughly from top to bottom, with some cheery music. He did end up trying to call a little bit ago but I didn't hear the phone. Getting my mind off it doing something productive seems to help.

GB -- so many issues for you. Each one serious. I just don't know. I just want things to be fixed for you. Maybe a wise person can help you. I can only imagine your grief. I'm so sorry.


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway