But mostly I just want to quit obsessing about this entire ordeal, and I know that if I dont then i'll either do something stupid that will certainly seal the fate of my M or i'll end up losing my job b/c I can't seem to get any work done. It doesn't help at all that i've kind of made it to a point in my career where I no longer share an office with anyone, and no one really follows up on what im doing as long as the work gets done, and i've managed to keep getting the work done so far by coming in on nights and weekends, just about anytime im not with S11 and don't have plans I end up coming in here knowing that I have to catch up, but I also know if I keep that up then sooner or later im going to miss a deadline and its not going to be good for me at all.
Anyone?
If it helps, I can totally relate to this. Work was about the last thing on my mind for most of 2011. I could not focus and, really, didn't care about it at all. I did the bare minimum and that was it.
Other people seem to get by mentally by focusing on their work. Others simply struggle. I don't have an answer other than to do what you need to do to make sure that your W has something to come back to. Don't destroy what you have built with your career. Focus and do what you have to do.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
