How do you know then when it's the right opportunity to talk reconciliation then? Is it up to the spouse to bring it up? Do you just have to know? What are the signs that you know?
There seems to be a fine line of asking for what you want and not pursuing, I'm just asking where is that line?
Notice I said to believe NONE of what is said and half of what is done.
You will know it is time when the actions tell you. Not the words.
When you hear true remorse, not just guilt.
I will just say that you will know, there will not be doubt.
Sounds like you are not up to that yet. What do you think?