Your sitch is so confusing. Your W rarely shows signs of a R but doesn't seem to be in a hurry for the D either. It sounds like she sometimes "talks the talk" but doesn't follow through.
That's a good observation NTX. Talking the talk and not following through is consistent with her pattern. I think right now she's off on a tangent of buying a house, and she's consumed with that. Also, she's become accustomed to me doing everything like making the big decisions and paying the bills over the years, so this is kind of unchartered territory for her.
