Good to hear Alkaline- I do the same by not responding to all the texts and if I do respond I wait a couple hours and overanalyze the few words I am using to respond, it’s pathetic. The detach thing I might do with a little bit of overkill especially from W’s perspective. I am not detached but I think my W feels I have. How does the term go, fake it till you make it.
I can’t believe your talking with your W that much. Over an hour? I am not saying that’s a bad thing or a good thing, I just don’t know. Do what works right? In an effort to be diplomatic I can see both sides. Hell yeah, I would like to have a good conversation with my W at the same time it might make me miss her more. With my luck the next day W would decides to be a total b!tch and then I would regret the fact that I gave her that time.
I can’t mess up by saying the wrong words if I don’t communicate with W. I also want to make my W miss me and I feel by not talking with her for more than a couple minutes she “might” miss me more. I also think it’s a good idea to make her “wonder” what I am doing and even if she talks most of the time I am sure some of what I am up to would come out in the conversation.
Nice work and stay strong. You are doing a great job Alkaline.
