good that you can see some of the positive in this sitch. there's another board i frequent that is about dealing with primarily narcissists (mainly MIL's, but there are people with NM, NH, NSIL's, etc). it is extremely rough to have to deal with. my MIL was an N and a toxic person to be around. she caused me a lot of grief. my silver lining is that i don't have to deal with the hosebeast any more...
M:29 H:30 M:2.5 years T:13 years No kids EA:11/2011 PA:01/2012 Bomb:02/2012 H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012 Trying to decide what I want for a change...