virgomare,

I'm so sorry about your situation. Hang in there, there is always hope. Reading it, I had flashbacks of my own story. The back and forth between OW and me, all the confusion and pain. Your H sounds very much like mine. Today, we are together again and reconciling. It is possible, if this is what you want. You can read about my situation and all the mistakes and stumbles I made on our way to marital recovery here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...836#Post2201836


M:12yr
06/11:IDLYA
07/11:Moves out
08/11:PA disc(began in May)
09/11:Moves w OW
10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt
11&12/11: Touchngo w me
1/12: Comes home-PA resumes
2/12: PA disc; PA ends
Today: Piecing