Surprise...surprise... H just called I was moping the floor while my mom was bathing the little one, he asked me how I was and how was the little one...awkward silence...then I said "how are you" he said he was ok ((awkward)) silence...then he said " I'm sorry, for all the hurt Ive caused you, I don't think I will ever forgive myself... I feel like I'm horrible father to our son because I still haven't found a place of my own and I'm short of money" I told him " I told him very calmly: "We should talk about these things face to face not over the phone, nobody is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, this whole mess was not only your fault but mine too...Anyways I gotta go finish mopping these floors or I will never finish doing chores today" " He said "ok" He sounded very sad.