Wendy, I completely understand how you feel. You are trying to finalize some issues and he's not being helpful at all. This is the way of the mlcer...they won't help you w/the divorce or setting down to discuss bills. In fact, you are very lucky he didn't say that you would pay all of the expenses. Many of them want to have as little responsibility as possible and your h appears to be heading that way as well.
Please take care of yourself. I am worried about you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
