So I had a blind date scheduled for Sat but canceled it because I am really not emotionally ready. I am going out and living and having fun and not sitting around but not yet ready to be back to dating. I will try again in a couple of weeks. I don't want to make myself more messed up and I don't want to drag a 4th person into the soap opera my life has become.
On Sun, first thing... before 9am even, I got a text. "How was your blind date?" I did not respond. Since telling him on Tuesday I give up he has stepped up, but this is all a game for him to regain control I think. At first he didn't change at all, like calling my bluff but maybe my silence spoke more volumes than all my texts and voicemails ever could.
Later on Sun night I got another text asking how my day was. It's been about 2 months since he did that. Ever since I said get rid of her and he did then went back to her he has been acting like I am the mistress he is trying to cut out of his life. And I know he will regret this. Every day I care a little less. And he is so caught up in his new life and thinking that there is no way I won't still be there whenever he feels like picking me up again I don't even think he notices yet.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
