Trying to decide whether to do phone coaching or just walk away. W seems determined to move on, her new job starts properly today. Her house is mostly sorted. I seem to have stopped working on myself like labug said. All advice from all angles seems to be to move on. Had a very symbolic dream last night. I was in my new car and the steering went funny. I slowed down and the car righted itself. I went round another corner the steering failed completely and I crashed. The car was a complete wreck but I was unscathed. Suddenly I'm surrounded by people offering to make sure the car is safe whilst I carry on with the day. I said don't worry I'll sort it later and walked off hoping it would be alright. Thinking about it reminded me of my M, a car wreck. I then thought maybe there's another option I stay with the car, ring for help and get it repaired. Hence the phone counselling idea...