sorry i haven't replied for a couple of days - been going through some 'stuff"!!
You are sounding better and better each time you post - and that is lovely to read
and your goals are getting more specific too, which is great.
have you had any time to read the posts on the Goals thread over on newcomers. there are some guidelines for how to write the goals really specifically in the three parts , and I think that you are now ready to take the first set of goals you have formulated and put them in that format.
for the part time job - in the actions part - i'd like to see you write down specifically what actions you will take to get the job - for e.g.. i will fill out x or y apple form by so and so date, or i will spend x hrs looking at job listings etc.
so let's get you doing that for each.
I've just started to listen to MWD's KLA tapes, and she realy stresses making the goals so specific that they are down to the nitty gritty exact exact format you can get them to.
so my job here is to really nudge (or shove, whichever way one wants to look at it ) every person setting their goals to get really really specific.
btw - if h feels tethered it's his own noose he's feeling. and i love what you wrote in response. that's the attitude girl. drop the rope on him and go do your own thing
I also love how you handled the whole dinner thing with your s. how did the dinner go? great, I hope.
i have a feeling that was a 180 for you - great great great!!!
you either finished reading dance of anger, or this is starting to come naturally for you - stopping fixing for others and taking care of yourself
glad you threw the old rags out. you are so steppin' out now, you won't recognize yourself soon
(((( )))) zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
