Need help with detaching and hoping to reconcile.

[lillystillinlove]

Things went ok until today. I knew I should have avoided having a conversation with the OW's H. I just don't know what to think. He is convinced H and the OW are still involved. He says he has proof and has offered to share it. He said the weekend H moved out and was barely heard from the OW's whereabouts were unknown.

I just want to scream. I don't know what to think. Just when I think I or convinced myself he's being truthful something like this happens. I really don't know what to do. I'm just angry right now and sad and heartbroken. I feel like just giving up, being done with it all. No discussions. The impression I got was that the OW's H believes they are having a PA. No proof just circumstantial "evidence". He has snooped. He knows they are still in contact. I hate this. How is their happiness more important that our children's happiness. What ever happened to doing the right thing.

If anyone has been in a similar situation do you have any advice?

I'm am sick to my stomach and my head is pounding...