Oh geez, I've rustled KD from his hibernation! I must be sounding really lost.
You are correct that I have not changed my mind. I do need to refocus. One of my personal issues that I have been working on is not taking over and doing things for other people as used to be my codependent fixer habit. I am still trying to detangle what this means in terms of not doing stbx's work on the D. My work, I can handle that. I'm doing it. His work? That's where i'm stuck, yes.
