Looking for something to keep me fighting

[NASCARDaddy]

Now I am not saying that if getting back together with your wife is not a good idea if that is what you want. I am just saying that it is not a good idea right now. Your marriage did not deteriorate to this point overnight and even under the best of circumstances it is not going to be fixed overnight. If she were to offer to reconcile right now and you just took her back you would just be sending a message to her that she can treat you however she wants and you will just roll over and take it. Insist that she make changes in her life just like you are. It takes two to break a marriage and it is going to take two people to fix it.