Something that really resonated with me is "if you can't change something you can change how you feel about it"
So when I'd get upset that H is spending money like that crazy...I pause and think I'm so happy I had the opportunity to stand on my own two feet, to be responsible. It's a great feeling to know that I paid for all the bills, that I don't owe money to his mom.
And when I think about how he's riding a crazy train instead of being annoyed or angry I just think I'm so thankful I'm not on it.
So maybe you can look at it another way in being happy that you can get it resolved quickly and move on.
