We have not seen each other or spoken verbally for 4 days now. I am doing what I can to GAL. But this may kill me. We have only shared a few text convo's which she has initiated. I initiate nothing.

But yesterday she txt'd me and asked how my day was? I responded that it was going really well and asked how her day was. She did not respond and has been dark since. This is new, she has always completed even our shortest of txt convo's. This can not be a good sign.

I have been through this process before with my previous D. And in that one too, I first laid out my heart but then gave her space. The first few days were to very similar to what is happening now. It was on day 9 or 10 that I received the "final" letter from my ex. I am terrified that this R is going in the same direction and that I am running out of time.

I am doing everything in my power to DETACH but I want to speak with her so badly. Any thoughts or direction?