MrsD: Don't beat yourself up about yesterday. Was he trying to reach out more....maybe,but even if he was he won't give up after one time so you there will be other opportunities and that just gives you more time to improve yourself. As far as today goes I think both of your answers to your son are wonderful answers. Its exactly what I told my son last week about my W going to church.....he wanted to talk to her b/c she hasn't been going and asked me what I thought and I told him that it was fine, but understand that it might be something she's not willing to do right now.
