When H first announced that OW was going to spend the night at his place when he had the kids, he suggested that OW would pretend to leave for the night and come back after the kids had gone to sleep. She would also then leave in the AM before they woke up and pretend to arrive after they woke up.
I obviously told my H that I not only opposed her spending the night, but also having them lie to my kids on top of it. I then added that in the end, if he wanted to lie to his own children, to go ahead. (OW didn't spend the night that time...)
My point is that I am not going to do anything to protect his R with his kids. Time has a way of putting things where they belong and sooner or later, your H's mistakes with his children will come back to haunt him.
Hang in there! I know you just want to protect your kids from all this junk.
(((Nblost)))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
