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Please elaborate on eyes, ears, and mouth.

It means to listen, watch, but dont talk about the depression.

She must FIX it on her own, not by you trying to CONTROL the sich.

You did not cause her depression and you can not FIX it.

If she goes to the IC and goes on meds, i.e. starts to work on her own depression there is a better chance that long term she will be healthy.

Basic DB'ing still applies.
Maybe you can learn about depression and being the spouse of someone who is depressed.