Originally Posted By: vera be fierce
Hey zig,

No big advice but keep in mind that you don't have to agree to everything or anything during your talk. You are fully entitled to say "I'll have to think about that" or "I'll have to get back to you on that ."


PERFECT, vera. I said that a lot during my talks w/ W...but I was also ready so when she mentioned an outrageous number, I could take her back to the facts.. so that she would not stay stuck on it..

i would let her know why i thought her numbers were not fair but i would not counter..

not till much later when i was truly ready..

and after i had run the numbers by some very trusted friends who are really good numbers/$ people..

one of them told me i was giving up too much and explained why which really helped me.

i pride myself on being a good numbers person but when the heart is involved it is easy to make mistakes..

love you, zig..


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13