Got it. I have been reading DR. And I also have been GAL. I have been working out, lost 10lbs this week, partly because I didnt eat for 72hrs after. I'm also reconnecting with some old friends. I did just read the 37 rules yesterday, good stuff in there but some is super difficult.
I am working super hard to DETACH. That is by far the most difficult for me. I have not initiated any conversations, emails or texts since thursday am.
I only respond if she sends something my way and I am trying to keep my responses kind but brief. No extending convo's. She has been sending some really nice texts tho. I read your message Cadet, believe none of what she says. Very confusing because I want to take the nice texts as a step in the right direction.
I am going to continue to GAL and DETACH. What is the appropriate thing to do if she wants to get together again casually? I don't think there is any way I could say no....if this is going to work out, at some point we have to talk right?
I thought I was through the panic/desperate stage but I had a bit of a breakdown this afternoon. I am trying to keep as busy as possible.
