Looking for something to keep me fighting

[chatterbug]

It is important to document that you thought the arrangement was going to be 50%-50% and you were acting on full faith.

It is important to make sure some of your friends know this.

It is important to document each time you were denied access.

Spend as much time with them. And attempt to spend as much time with them.

Make sure it is captured in a journal and email.

Stuff like , going to school , home from school. Girl-guides.. swimming... Etc... Show that you are trying to be an active father in their life.

If you have no written agreements with your wife currently then find a temp 50% 50% parent plan and send it to your lawyers and co-parenting coordinators. Stressing how a fail and balanced parent plan with both parents being active in their lives is the goal.

Then fight for that.



And yes I agree. Screw that mediator your wife has. That is pure B.S. She can spout her man hate somewhere else. Next time she says that tell her if she slanders you again that you will file a formal complaint against her for discrimination.

And do not deal with her.

God did not decimate your marriage. Your wife did.