25 -
THANKS SO MUCH for checking in on me again! wow...I really did miss being here around people like you who are giving their time and energy to ME, without knowing me and expecting nothing in return. You get me so well and have helped me so much since I first came to these boards. I AM MORE GRATEFUL THAN I CAN EXPRESS HERE and I am trying to pay it forward by just showing support to others here. THANK YOU AGAIN.

Rick -
Thanks for the welcome back! I will go check your thread shortly. I want to know how you have been doing all this time and show my support to you too!

Busting -
I so appreciate your comments. As I told you, I do feel like we have a lot in common. Many of the fears I have and the feelings I go thru are things you have expressed and voiced in your own thread and when I have read it, I just constantly go - yes! yes! yes! It's uncanny to me how much we share and seeing your own strength, kindness and positivity helps me a lot. So thank you for stopping by.

Adinva -
I sooo hope that you can turn your sitch around too! I can see how you are also getting into this really uncomfortable legal part of this crazy journey. I feel like we are walking into a dark cave at the same time and I wished we didn't have to, but I know you will be ok, because you are such a strong person. We will both be ok, no matter what.

Labug -
Thanks for checking in! Since I started reading your threads some time ago, I am just in awe of your amazing growth. You grasped DBing and implemented it so well from the get-go and I always look up to you and try to take pointers. I know we share some of the same challenges, but you seem to have faced and destroyed your demons so well... You inspire me, so thank you.


I will update and answer some of the questions you guys have asked shortly.


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D