KeepGoing, I'm also at 18 mos but don't have young children or alimony to think about. You've gotten some good advice above so I won't get into that.

My question would be: What are your goals now? Is drawing the process out helping you, or hurting you? What do you need from H at this point?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss