Thanks for all of your replies. I have filed for divorce as I find this situation unbearable. It is very difficult to be confronted by this much disrespect on a daily basis. My h has posted photos of himself and ow all over Facebook on holiday with other teachers from my children's school. If I have to hear one more parent say how sorry they are for my situation I may choke! I loved my husband and I wou,d do it all again to get the four amazing beings we created. I just cannot do this anymore. I cannot reconcile this man with the man I married. My h has been telling anyone who will listen how miserable our life was. We had some tough times but we also had some amazing times. I know I contributed to this situation and I wish my h had given us a chance to face our issues and sort our stuff out without walking out altogether. I think I am better off without a person who can behave like this anyway.
