So I'm only catching up. I think Grace is right. He's unsure because all of a sudden you're standing up for yourself so much more. Plus let's be honest he may be worried that at any point you could get angry and this could be messy. He's in the position of being the one who had an A and is still with OW.
Also not everyone on this board with resonate with you. I've found that some people's advice isn't for me. There are people that I read what they write to other people and I think I trust their judgement it's what I'd say or how I'd want to be or how I view the world and others not so much. So the it's just like TV shows: maybe you're a Jerry Springer person or maybe you're more Oprah. You pick what works for you and you don't pay attention to what doesn't.
