New to 180.. Any advice to make it work?

[rubysgem]

So all day Thurs I was silent. Around 6 he left a message about how he's in a bad mood and listed all the bad luck he's been having and how he didn't want to take that out on me since I am not to blame and have done nothing wrong. SURPRISE!! Another excuse. I just said Karma is a (female dog) isn't she? Sorry you are having such bad luck. He texted me good night (these amuse me I think).

On Friday I was silent still. Nothing. Not a good morning. No smiley. I am done playing by his rules all it does is hurt me. And I am so hurt I need to self protect now.

Around 7 he left a message about how it was his friends birthday and he was going to dinner with them and where he'd be later. Said he would call me. I DON'T CARE. And when he got nothing for 3 hours he texted asking how my day was. I said fine. Then he started texting asking where I am what I am doing blah blah trying to sound friendly... he was digging. He wanted to know if I was in a bar. Yes, I go to the bar. My friends are there. I do not go often. Since July 1 I was in a bar 2 times. He seems to think it's the only place I ever go. So he asked point blank if I was at the bar... I said why do you make me sound like a party girl... he said forget it then by that answer I know you're in the bar. Actually I was on my computer playing games in my pajamas. Like I did every Friday night when we lived together. He seems to think I too changed into someone else overnight. More to come...