And your email to your good lady. I wish I could do the same but I have a feeling that its too soon for me to put any pressure on my W.
I may be on the way to getting my head surgically removed from you-know-where but she hasn't got the advantage of this wonderful place. She's only got the incessant re-examining every last minute detail with the "friend".
I'm hoping this will change. I've had friends who have told me the W has been spotted out and about with real friends. Our friends. So she isn't joined at the hip.