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oh my gosh - our sitches are getting more and more audacious!!!

hand???

you're shittin' me, brit - you are beyond audacious. I LOVE that!!

but you know - i've felt the same freedom after the D talk that u describe. that i'm on the blanket and i feel free to say what i feel. as usual couldn't quite articulate it!!

can't wait to hear the male feedback on this little episode wink

i'm glad to hear you are sounding so good.

my h told me i was "on fire" tonight at the parent evening at school (grin) so who knows, maybe vera is right and we need to put some moolah down on cainer!!!

thanks for a great laugh - which was sure welcome - 2 days ago i cried with you, now i can laugh with you

hope you had a wonderful time with your friend - in fact i'm sure you did. what a hoot! i simply CANNOT even begin to comprehend that he made her wait with a broken hand so he could give you a ride.

you're not just eating strawberries you are growing them

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OMG Brit... i love who you are! i can not believe that you went there.. ROFL at that exchange and your follow-up about knowing what he likes. and what in the world is up with H??!? She's waiting with a MANGLED hand and he is wanting to give you a ride. You could not make this up, LMAO. thank you for the laugh tonight! hope you have a great time but i doubt you will hear anything funnier than what you experienced with H tonight. that has to be a DB classic.. ((((((( ))))))))


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that's a great way to put it, ng - a DB classic!!! hee heee hee

i've been getting a kick out if it for the last couple of hours. i love how you said brit could not make this up if she tried!!

so how should we refer to this episode from now on? grin

we have to give it a sweet name - any suggestions?


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i thought of one but it might get censored smile


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yeah, me too grin

that's why i was waiting for other suggestions

oh man , what a hoot!!

let's bring out the trumpets tonight with the rum

we'll hoot on the trumpets and dance a jig!


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ps.

okay i'm going to be a little wicked here and say - hmm, wonder what kind of pressure ow put him through after that!!


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hey brit and all the other sadges out there - her's a great one for us. it's from madalyn aslan for this week


You never give up! Even when the chips are down, somewhere in you there is a sense that things will turn themselves around. Why is this? Because you tend to attract good fortune. Your energy vibrates abundance because you have learned this simple law of cause and effect, when you are open and receptive and your energy is elevated, better things typically come your way. People like to be around optimistic vibes, they love the feeling of faith and you radiate this emotion more than any other sign. Saturn and Mars conjunct in Libra on Wednesday, August 15 suggesting you have been fighting to recover that instinctual faith-filled instinct. Certain events have challenged this natural emotion and had even you questioning whether you still that positive flame of hope burning in you. By Friday, August 17 when a New Moon in fellow fire sign Leo makes a stabilizing angle of support to this Saturn/Mars conjunction, your passionate conviction and confidence in humanity will be re-ignited and by Sunday when Mercury and Uranus connect seamlessly in fellow fire signs Leo and Aries a new rush of adventure will course through your veins.

Back in the game!


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Good morning ladies! It was too crazy for me not to come home and write up even if I was a little tipsy. See now its a bit fuzzy and I'm not sure if that's what I said but I'm almost positive.

I felt like he was more open with me telling me the ins and outs of whether he'd go somewhere with her at the 3 day weekend. I think my convo about I let you into my life but it doesn't go both ways did impact him.

Oh and I forgot to tell you this if things work out he's talking about driving me to the airport in a few weeks to pick up my mum. This man does not know what he's letting himself in for or maybe he does my mother LOVES him, calls him her favourite son in law and he's not the only one, she told me once that he loves me more than I love him anyone could see it and I was lucky (but she only saw him once a year when he was being charming)

OW who I call GF?? Later on in the night I had one of those moments where I thought I had JUST sprayed on a load of perfume before I got in his car. If they take his rather than hers to the hospital she might smell. Either way I thought that would really hurt me....your hand is broken and the man you want to marry is hanging out waiting for his wife to get ready for happy hour.

Oh I almost forgot he asked me where we were going and I said maybe here or here they have a nice outdoor area. And I said have you been there? And he said no. And I said what about x? And he said I haven't been many places you know me I don't go out. And I said really? Cause I thought new H is always going out...checking in on FB every two seconds and he was a bit sheepish and said okay....damn. Then I said I think you'd like that place and described the decor and I said and on Thursdays they have specials on "his favourite brand of alcohol" he was like ooh thanks. And I said but I don't know it might be too trendy, you (he laughed and said probably is) and she might be far too serious to ever go there....best to stick to old man pubs drinking ale. He had smile on his face and he was shaking his head saying I don't drink ale. It was just a funny exchange we had more last night than in a few months it didn't feel strange between us.

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*meant too trendy for you

Also last night the girls I was with were talking about his they met their partners of 4 and 8 years. (the 8 yr one is getting married) anyway all their stories were not the typical we met he asked me out etc. it was really funny because I told them if I had been your friend back then I would have said he's not into you or this will never last. And it just made me think things don't have to be how you expect them, things can happen in any which way, and I'm not sure that I'm applying that to my sitch but in terms of life.....Everytime I think I've stopped control I notice another area and thinking things have to be a certain way in dating or life isn't true. You can have a happy ever after in a million different ways!
Okay enough posting from me where's the men on this Handful of a Happy Hour incident?

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Hahahahahaha!!!!!! Brit!!!!!

Handful of a Happy Hour!!!! LMAO!!! I love it!

Brit you have made my morning!

Was just catching up with you. Glad you had what eels like a great night.

You really are a woman only a fool would leave....


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TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
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