can Turtles still stand?

[zig]

hi keep-going

i just went to catch up on your latest thread.

i'm so sorry that your sitch is in the position it's in right now - you sound very sad, so i think it's time for us to gather around you and help you feel more positive no matter what is going on in your life

(((((((( )))))))))

my position with my h is slightly different. he is not "grabbing for anything, in fact there isn't anything to grab for in our situation. and i don't think he is going to do anything unfair either. we actually haven't had a conversation at all about how things will be split up yet. and i think that he is right that we do need to sit down and discuss it.

i cannot say that i haven't been avoiding that conversation and resisting it all this time. but today i realized that there really is no point to do that.

just like your h though he is insisting that we file together - mutual consent. i think the idea of that makes him feel better. he wants me to want it to, which right now i couldn't do unless i faked it. but i am not in that place of faking things any longer, i suppose.

i know you don't post much - but if you could post some, and let your feelings out here on the board, i think it will help you to feel better and you will get a lot of support

thanks for stopping by - and i hope that you'll have a good weekend.

zig