have not read the whole thread so am unable to comment in full.
But I'm wondering why no ML if there is no OM at present?
(And arguably even if there were an OM, I'd assess the situation carefully before rejecting my spouse, but I know Starsky will screw his head in the ceiling if we go there. )
Assuming no present OM, Seems like it'd help her with a lot of issues and it connects them...
what am I missing here?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
My thinking is that to go from not wanting him to kiss her to wanting full PI in the course of just a few days doesn't exactly show a stable mindset. Either she is bipolar (which would explain the feelings of depression as well) or she is just looking to use him. Either way, until they begin to work on the issues in the marriage and make some progress towards resolving them it is not a good idea to jump back in right now. I am speaking from experience. My W began initiating intimacy again just two days before she told me that she thought we would separate.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012
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