Thinking about it more I don't want to chase her away by trying to jump start a conversation. I will just hold what I've got and hope that by being around each other more she might open up.
I know it hasn't been very long, but I am wondering if she might be second guessing the D. She hasn't mentioned anything about it since the last talk. In that time I have been spending more time with the kids and taking some pressure off her being a newly single mom.
Maybe she sees this as an improvement in my behavior.
I don't think we would have ended up in this sitch if I would have just been a moderately better person. So now I plan on being the best person possible and seeing if that changes the dynamic.
I just got the 5LLs in so I need to start reading that tonight. Hopefully, it will give me a little insight in to how to approach her when she does open up communication.
And you are right the FB thing was stupid. It is definately a motivation drain.
Me:27 W:30 S1:3y/o S2:8m/o T:5 M:3 Bomb:5/16/12 W moved out:5/16/12
