Lots of questions and a good deal of doubt.

[mshaf]

W dropped of the kids Wed. night and lingered for a little bit. She was very tired so I offered a seat which she didn't take. She hung around and arranged some things in the kitchen. There was not much in the way of talk, mostly about kids.

I don't know if she wanted more conversation.

She left and called around noon the next day to check on the boys.

Yesterday evening we went to register my oldest for day care. No real conversation.

I have been making an effort to spend more time with my boys and I think we are growing closer together. This is something I dropped the ball on before the bomb, so I have doubled down on my efforts to be a better father.

She seems to be getting more comfortable as she is lingering at the house longer.

I am not sure what to make of this, so I haven't said anything.

Should I try to start more conversation, or just be happy with her spending more time around me?