Well Arsene, great work on sticking to your goals! And picking the good parts out of the interaction is a good thing to do, so long as they don't lead you off your path!
Keeping in mind the direct interactions, the suggestions that you both read together... It's a good way to keep a PMA.
Balancing them out with your thoughts that OM picked her up might help keep you grounded, but don't let that effect your PMA! You're making progress, you can't control her, just be the best parent you can be, let W do her thing and you keep along the path to a new you!
