Arsene: Im with Denver, don't give up too soon, im in the same boat wondering how much more I can take, wondering how long I have to let this go on...feeling like im going to explode any minute. And our situations are pretty similar, my wife clearly doesn't like being around me right now.
Get your strength from within, but also read back over Denver's thread or Starsky's thread, we're no different than they were and as well as they are doing today, they thought they couldnt take anymore a long time ago as well. I wrote my wife a nice long email just a couple of days ago.....its actually some of my writing and some cut and paste of different portions of peoples emails that i've seen on here, but its simply sitting in my drafts. I'll send it someday when I truly get to my last drop, but thats not today.
You have to decide when to switch, but make sure you've given yourself time enough to change first, and then that you've given those changes time enough to be seen.
