I like your comment about focusing on the R rather than the behaviors. My W's behaviors really are distracting to me because they are so confusing and contradictory.
Back to focusing on my life and letting go of the distractions.
Gosh, every thread I read today is hitting me between the eyes! Even though H and I are nowhere near piecing, I was getting sucked back in to the contradictory behavior as well. Or what I thought was contradictory based where I believe our sitch really is.
Anyway, love the painting idea! Actually sounds like fun. And maybe instead of going out, that's the perfect day for a picnic! ;-)
