Glad you are seeing the small changes. It will help keep you motivated. This process can be frustratingly slow, I've found out and it's so tempting to read into everything, good or bad.
I read the Laura Munson book. I'd highly recommend it to you. Somehow she manages to stay balanced through her husband's whole MLC, although, compared to some of the situations on this board, it seems like a cake walk. I did find it helpful/inspiring though.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page