Yes Im a problem solver. Not only by nature, but my job requires consistent probem solving skills. So I tend to bring it home with me at times. But the beauty of being a problem solver is that though you may be able to see or come up with solutions to problems, you do learn by experience that you can't solve them all or fix them all.I think accepting that you can't solve everyone's problems is the biggest solution to alot of problems in this world! And I must say it's actually a RELIEF to understand this. It's liberating!
I can't solve the problem about Ow ignoring the girls or making a point not to connect with them. Im just pissed she's being rude to my girls. Mamma bear thing you know.....
Yes AJ it I'd say the majority of the ex's is they definately affair down, that's for certain. It still puzzles me why....guess another problem I can't solve or figure out. Perhaps it's energetic, like attracting like, and a learning oppurtunity for them to grasp issues they were refusing to look at or come to grips with when they decided to run in the first place.
I know one thing I've seen in my life is that life always brings up oppurtunity time and time again to teach us something until we finally learn it. I must say this divorce through XH MLC, has brought up every personal fear I've had and has pushed me to face it head on! Life school has been tough, but Im coming through it pretty darn good in my opinion. Aside from my brusied ego (damn ego makes life so hard) I feel so much more solidified and centered in myself now.
