Just finished moving my son to college 4 hours away! Last couple of nights have been incredibly tumultuous with XH. He decided son couldn't have his car at school. Came last night in dramatic fashion with new gf and had hostile confrontation with son in front of son's friends. It was a scene out of white trash manual.

Son wakes up this morning in daze. Miserable start to the day. But - we packed up my car and moved him into a great place with a great team and he gets to begin a new chapter in his life. Daughters were texting and emailing their dad trying to reason with him. No luck...

Earlier in the week XH emailed his entire distribution list of co-workers and cc'd his kids - "Having blood work today. Will be out two weeks for surgery on an umbilical hernia that should have been handled a long time ago." Kids were mortified. Best part - coworkers were replying to all saying "where's the work you were supposed to have completed...etc" Kids were seeing it all...

Back in the tunnel he goes - but none of us are following.

MY new chapter begins as well. Long time coming:) Thanks for being here..


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time