ces, is there somewhere she particularly likes to go? For ice cream, a smoothie, a margarita? Sonic for milkshake Happy Hour?

Invite her out for something fun like that and just talk about normal stuff, get into a routine and see what happens.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss