Moved his stuff out..

[unbidden]

So sorry it came to this but it sounds like you really made the right decision. Hugs to you (((()))) you are so strong.

[MrBond]

"I really need to work on being the bigger person.. "

You've always acted as the bigger person. He's just a d*ckless @$$. There's no cure for d*ckless @$$ disease.

[hopingandpraying]

Awww...thanks Mr.Bond! That literally made me tear up and laugh at the same time!

[vera be fierce]

Hugs to you. It sounds like he's angry that he's no longer totally in control. Good for you for sticking up for yourself. Take care.

[unbidden]

Bond, you are funny and have a gift of getting right to the crux of a matter;)

[BklynMom]

Seriously you have detached quicker and better then most of us. You are doing an amazing job. Take it easy on yourself. Be gentle.

Men love to call woman crazy. It has nothing to do with you

[Lasa]

So sorry you are going through this. I recently filed as well and my husband was incensed. I was also not going to put up with the disrespect he was showing me as a person he once cared for and the mother of his four children.
Stay strong. You are worth much more than this present version of your husband.

[hopingandpraying]

Thank you, everyone!

It sometimes is still very hard getting this disrespect and anger from him as a person that he loved for 8 years and then all of a sudden (on my end) it was done for him!

I guess I just won't understand it all, until I meet someone who makes this whole mess make sense! Now, when will that day come?!?! haha

[Accuray]

HopingAndPraying,

Your strength through this has been amazing, you were able to GAL like a pro. I'm so sorry it didn't work out the way you had hoped, but at least you're getting closure on your terms. I admire your bravery and resolve through this horrible process!

Accuray

[hopingandpraying]

Thank you Accuray!

You are right. I am glad that I am getting closure on my terms and it is no longer in his hands. It still hurts that he has chosen this other lifestyle with his gf and has changed dramatically (chain smoker, stopped working out, hangs out with different friends, etc.). However, I do not want to be a part of that lifestyle. I like the H I had a year ago, not the person he has become.

Yes, I've done some changing through the years, but I don't think for the worse and I just continue to try to better myself now. I still want to be the woman only a fool would leave and when he sees me, i want him to think that and if he doesn't I will think and know that!

Accuray, I need to read up on your thread. You, too, are a very strong person and admire your strength through your hard times!