So I filed! I could not take the lies and deceit anymore. He is not someone I want to be married to, especially since he has brought his OW to meet his family and everyone seems just okay with everything. After I found that out, it was the last straw and I filed. I could not wait any longer for him to figure things out and file if he wanted the divorce so bad.
Once he was served, he was upset with me because it was 'unclassy' for me to serve him at work. Well....I don't have a home address for you because you are too secretive. And it upsets me because not once did I ever show up at his previous house or beg him to come home.
We have court in Aug because I filed for temp relief to get some money for the mortgage until I get back on my feet. He said 'verbally' that he would give me the money, but has not done it,s o I filed a motion with my attorney.
He had the audacity today to tell me that I am delusional and he's so glad he got away from me...it hurts me when he says these things, because I feel that I've done everything better than most would. I helped him move, put on that happy face when he moved, and try hard not to argue with him.
I know I need to work on not fighting back with him, but I can't just let someone say mean, hurtful things without taking a stand to defend myself, but then again, what's the use of arguing with him. It's like I'm talking to a teenager.
It's all just still hard and I hate seeing this side of him and the bad he brings out in me. I really need to work on being the bigger person..
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
