sure ,, you trigger me off. the exact same way my h used to - and i admit that openly. in fact, i know this sounds a bit whacko, but i swear you're here to make me figure out a different way to approach you , and that in turn will help me to learn a new way to approach my h.
I'm willing to admit i'm not there yet.
You specifically replied to my post on busting's thread, and i'd like to point out that when i said give it a break i was referring to your last sentence - about how we all know where you stand on being loving and supportive.
Now if you had written that post directly to busting and only talked to her directly, there would have been no response from me
but it's almost as if you WANT to start an argument with me. you're so busy pointing the finger at me and my issues, i can't help but wonder what yours are, that get you so fired up.
if anyone stands up to you - you do one of 2 things: you either ignore them completely or you lay into them big time. you seem to do the second with me pretty often.
and the other thing is when someone points something out to you as i did repeatedly, you ignore that and focus on what they did wrong - which is stood up to you.
and wink or no wink - you might want to think about the fact, that if you were trying to lighten up the whole thing, it may take others a while to catch on. everyone including me is used to you getting pretty fired up about this issue, and honestly i barely noticed the wink because that's not how i see you. i read your words and get the intonation from that.
so if you were trying to lighten things up, by winking, i didn't get it, and i do apologize then for saying to give it a break.
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
