Doesn't it make sense that she wants to be "right"? So do you it seems. Except you seem to realize that being "right" or "justified" is really not very meaningful.
^^^^^ I have noticed that "theme" in your postings as well. Also, based on your postings, a tendency towards "black/white" "all/nothing" sort of thinking...maybe something to explore within yourself (and yes, I have been there, so I get where you are coming from...I still have to catch myself).
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If you're ex is anything like mine, it may incense her even more that you aren't all weepy and broken down into a puddle of mud. I think you realize now she just wants to be mad, so regardless of your actions, she'll be angry.
And if you did breakdown, she would most likely still be mad...I did both and W was flipping sh_t on me either way...bottom line...the anger phase is just that, anger at ANYthing that goes against what the mlc'er wants, or thinks they want, ANYthing that makes them feel bad, guilty, irresponsible, etc, etc, ad nauseum...anger at the birds flying by who just happened to exist at the moment they happened to look that direction...really...
No way out of it, it isn't really about you, just get through it and remember that its HER problem, not yours...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
