Maybe you can't evict her but you could lock your pantry. Treat her as a roommate. I normally say the mailman but you wouldn't have the mailman in the house with you. The point is the same be cordial but think to yourself...Would I be doing x,y or z for the mailman? If the answer is no well there you go. She isn't the person you married right now...quit expecting her to be.

Sorry if I am off base here but I have only read the most recent thread.

kat


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