Well she responded to the email. She told me she wishes she could respond in greater depth, but is on her way out the door. Then she thanked me for sharing the dream, talked about our health insurance situation (as it's open enrollment and we need to change plans... she's uncomfortable with me paying her health insurance, but has no job and let me know that as soon as she gets one, I can take her off... but i'm not sure that I can actually take her off without a "Life Change"... i.e. divorce... and I'd rather not go down that route!) and let me know that she'll be home later tonight and all day tomorrow if I wanted to talk... She clearly wants me to call her...
She ended with a phrase that she KNOWS I love when she says... then told me she'd definitely buy the shirt she was wearing in my dream (It said Won't Give Up on it) if she saw it...
I'm going to try my hardest not to over-analyze this email (as i'm so apt to do) but at least now I know that her reaction to it wasn't very negative.
Still, I really put myself on pins-and-needles waiting for a response to this email... A sign that my detachment is FAR from complete... And I know I need to pull back more, even if this response was reasonably positive.
Because I need to remember my 180s, remember that if i'm following DB/DR advice I'm not to initiate any contact... but even if i'm following my ICs advice I need to remember that the content and frequency of my initiations of contact need to be carefully considered...
Meaning I CAN'T call her tonight (as last night's email was an unsolicited contact), even if we do need to get the details of this insurance figured out by tomorrow...
