I just don't get how she will find out about the job and school or how she will see the changes I am making if I don't talk to her and I don't see her. I have read success stories here and in other places that say that it works, and both my therapist and my pastor have encouraged NC and told me that she will know. I still struggle to wrap my head around it though. How do I get past that feeling of the whole thing not making sense?
Who are you making the changes for?
Who becomes more successful after obtaining the Masters?
Who benefits from the great plan you have made?
Why do you concern yourself whether she sees it or not?
Confident man knows when others notice his actions.
March on and don't let her to distract you from your goals.
Lead.
People follow leaders not because they have to but because they choose to.
